Yes sir, it is too much to ask for my number

Creepy men at bars.
Am I right ladies or what?

Don't worry mom I never go out alone and I always stay in a group and I am extremely safe.

I've had a few instances.
I know how to handle myself and most of the time when we go out I only have one drink like a glass of wine early in the night.
Or i'm the DD completely.

I hardly ever get drunk.

So Saturday I went to a grad party and I may have had a margarita or two and I was a bit tipsy.
Mom can vouch because I called her and she could tell right away.
Deanna drove me home. It was OK.

But that night because I had already done some drinking that day I decided to not drink when we went out.
It was graduation night and it was going to be fun.
So there I am in sitting in the corner booth by the window of the ranch with two of my good girl friends who are drinking and I have a glass of water.
Totally fine with this entire situation.

We move around a little bit. Dance a little.
We have fun.

Well we sit down in a booth and then these middle age men come and sit down too.
Now we are used to being hit on tonight.
We've had a couple of guys offer to buy us drinks.
I always deny them and usually the guys are around my age.
Maybe a little older.

But the men that sat down were legitimately 40 years old. Maybe late thirties.

Well they start talking to us and by that point my other two girl friends are too drunk to really have the type of conversations they want.
I can hardly hear what they are saying.
And i'm trying to be polite but really its like 2 balding men that are flirting with me.
Ask how old I am and I lie of course.


Well one of my friends needs to pee and its an unspoken rule that when you go out with a group of girls you never leave anyone alone and you all pee together.
You also watch all of your friends drinks.
And never let anyone else touch your drink.
So this was my chance to escape.
Thank god.

But as i'm standing up to leave and squeeze past this guy he asks "Would it be too much to ask for your number?"
And I reply with "I'm sorry but I have a boyfriend"- we all know that is totally fake
And he replies "OK I respect that"
And I say thanks and slip away.
Thankful I got away from the creep.

But am I the only one that would think that a girl like me would never give my number to a guy closer to my fathers age than my own?
Is that weird?
And I wasn't flirting at all.

Yeah men at bars.
Stop being so creepy.