Playing Nice

As a child my mom would always stress to the three of us to play nice.
Now if you know anything about my siblings and I, is that we didn't really do that.
Or well Owen didn't really do that.
Claire and I were better at playing nice with each other.
Owen just wanted to wrestle all the time.

I have really tried to do unto others and I would have them do unto me.
The last thing I ever want to be called is rude.
I really try not to be rude and to take the higher ground.
I'm extremely considerate when it comes to relationships.
I try not to hurt my ex's and I often give them the benefit of the doubt.

I also try to not seriously flirt with more than one person at a time.
If it doesn't work out with that person, then I take a few days and then move on.
I don't flirt all the often and not with that many people.
And most don't realize i'm actually flirting because I get super awkward when I flirt and when people flirt with me.
Its an awkward vicious cycle so lets just go with i'm not good at flirting in general.
I use different moves on different people.
I'm original.

And I don't flirt with the close friends.
If there's someone cute and then it doesn't work out, that entire close friend group is out too.

The last thing I want to be seen as is an easy girl that flirts with everything.
I'm a very calculated and precise person.
I do my research which sounds creepy but I like to be informed.

So when someone that has flirted with one of my best friends decided to pull the same moves on me.
And they don't realize that they are doing it.
That's when things get ugly.


I don't want to be one of your many girls.
I want to be the only girl.
So don't try to pull the same moves that you used and failed with on my friend, with me.
Just no.

I give people the courtesy of that I give them my full attention when I am with them.
It is not on someone else.

So I expect the same from the person I am with.
I halt all flirting with other parties no matter how minuscule whilst in a relationship or something more established.
I do that out of respect.
And then I give them time to breathe if it doesn't work out.
Before I get back out there.
To show what we had was something that mattered.



Here's a bit of advice to all dating individuals.
Be individual to each flirting experience.
Don't use the same jokes or tricks.

Just be yourself and you will attract what you like