I am not that girl

Have you ever heard the song Not That Girl that is in the musical wicked?

I'm sure you have you lying little turd.
We or at least most of the female population that were born between the years of 1985 to 2000 have heard this song and at one time or another had an obsession with wicked.

I did.
Like junior year of high school which was holy crap 4 years ago.
Damn i'm old.


But being "not that girl".
Trying to distance yourself from something you are not whether it be good or bad.

Well I just saw a video entitled I am not that girl, done by Buzzfeed.
Here it is if you want to watch.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pfCjSo-Nklg

But its about not being the attractive one.
The graceful one.
The one that trips a lot.
The one that might be a little socially awkward.

Me in a nutshell.

My middle name is Grace but that does not mean I am graceful in the least.
I tend to talk too much and my mind thinks too fast for my mouth so sometimes I stutter.

But I have found acceptance and strength in not being the most eloquent.
It gives me personality.
People definitely know I am human and I think that makes me easier to approach because very few people are actually eloquent or smooth.

This video is also about accepting yourself.
For the fighters that may not have the best luck in relationships.
Those of us that have a harder time.

We are the ones with character.
And I'm glad to not be "that girl".



I like to give people something different.
I am unique.