Are freaking hard.
Recently I've had a few friends go through some nasty break ups.
And all I can ever say is that it will get better.
Its a dark time right now but I promise this will pass.
I tried to keep my distance from everyone because all I could think and talk about was my break up. And in a way you should do that. Just try to focus on yourself but also know that your friends are there for you too.
Maybe only confide in a few people instead of the general population about your feelings.
And you'll feel like the entire world is trying to eat you alive.
And that's just not the case.
You just haven't seen the sunshine yet
What most cannot see after their break up is that you are better off because of it.
There was a reason this person was in your life and there's a reason they are no longer in your life.
People come in and out of your life and stay for varying amounts of time and mean different things to you.
It was just their time to go.
This person meant something to you and its OK to miss them.
BUT
Someday you'll be sitting minding your own business and that piece of your heart where they used to live wont hurt anymore when you think about them.
And it'll be like this light has shown down from the heavens and this burden has been lifted off your shoulders.
That part of your life is over.
The memories wont hurt so much and everything will just be a previous chapter that has been read and now you have moved onto the next exciting chapter.
You no longer have the excuse that you are not ready for something just because you are getting over your ex.
Because right then you no longer have an excuse as to why you cant be happy.
All those quotes you looked up on Pinterest about heartbreak and finding love again will finally hit.
That song that used to remind you of them and you used to break down in tears to, wont affect you anymore.
The song Over You by Ingrid Michaelson featuring Great Big World was the one for me. If you can get through that song with out feeling anything about that person, you are officially over them. That's the test for me.
So to all my lonely hearts, the broken hearted, the ones that have given up hope on a brighter tomorrow and those that think they lost it all.
I say, try one more time.
When the world tells you not to do something, ask "why not?"
And then further down the road you'll maybe someday meet someone that'll make you realize why it never worked out with the last person.
And that will be your "why not?"
Its a dark time right now but I promise this will pass.
I tried to keep my distance from everyone because all I could think and talk about was my break up. And in a way you should do that. Just try to focus on yourself but also know that your friends are there for you too.
Maybe only confide in a few people instead of the general population about your feelings.
And you'll feel like the entire world is trying to eat you alive.
And that's just not the case.
You just haven't seen the sunshine yet
What most cannot see after their break up is that you are better off because of it.
There was a reason this person was in your life and there's a reason they are no longer in your life.
People come in and out of your life and stay for varying amounts of time and mean different things to you.
It was just their time to go.
This person meant something to you and its OK to miss them.
BUT
Someday you'll be sitting minding your own business and that piece of your heart where they used to live wont hurt anymore when you think about them.
And it'll be like this light has shown down from the heavens and this burden has been lifted off your shoulders.
That part of your life is over.
The memories wont hurt so much and everything will just be a previous chapter that has been read and now you have moved onto the next exciting chapter.
You no longer have the excuse that you are not ready for something just because you are getting over your ex.
Because right then you no longer have an excuse as to why you cant be happy.
All those quotes you looked up on Pinterest about heartbreak and finding love again will finally hit.
That song that used to remind you of them and you used to break down in tears to, wont affect you anymore.
The song Over You by Ingrid Michaelson featuring Great Big World was the one for me. If you can get through that song with out feeling anything about that person, you are officially over them. That's the test for me.
So to all my lonely hearts, the broken hearted, the ones that have given up hope on a brighter tomorrow and those that think they lost it all.
I say, try one more time.
When the world tells you not to do something, ask "why not?"
And then further down the road you'll maybe someday meet someone that'll make you realize why it never worked out with the last person.
And that will be your "why not?"
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