Just so we are all clear, I generally like kids.
But I also know that right now I do not want kids at this time.
I do not have my life together enough.
And quite frankly I really do not have the patience for them.
Power to you if you have kids, have had kids, are having kids or plan to have kids in the near future.
You obviously know something I don't know about kids.
Because seeing as how my current relationship status is oh you know, single and free as a bird.
I do not plan to have kids for quite some time.
I mean I cant even keep herbs alive. Do you really think I can keep a pet much less a human being alive.
Nope.
I mean some day I think I want kids.
With the right person.
This all came about because I saw the crazy lady from the other day and she had a legitimate horde of small children.
Her grandchildren...
She cant be 5 or more years older than my mom which scared me a lot..
Which makes her kids around my age...
Well the horde ran by and started banging on the door of one of my neighbors.
Just pounding away.
And I thought to myself, I'm really glad I don't have kids.
Now I know i'm not a parent and I'm not claiming to know anything about rearing children,
But at that moment I was glad to be single.
Theres small children all around where I live and sometimes they can be extremely noisy and I've heard this one little girl cry and cry for quite some time.
These kids are just a nuisance.
Some kids and I work really well, but the ones that live around me, not so much.
Kids and I just don't work right now.
I mean I love my little cousins.
Isaac and little Benjamin are wonderful and I love hanging out with them.
But I could not imagine being my age and having the patience for children and all their needs and problems.
So I will wait, find the right man to raise children with and fall in love, and get married, and then have kids.
So Mom you are going to have to wait a while seeing how my luck with men is going i'll probably find him around 35.
So I have 14 years to figure out my kinks.
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